To change the outcome of our life and fortune, it is necessary to change our mindset. Think about yourself first. Because we come from good intention, you will automatically share. It is necessary to put ourselves where our sharing is freely given not driven from a sense of responsibility or guilt. First, ask yourself, "What things in my life bring me joy?" If the answer is "I don't know", you must look back upon your childhood. When you were a child, there was a dream, a deep desire that obsessed you. Most people when asked, "what do you want?" usually reply, "I don't know". I have encountered these people through much of my career. These are the people who cannot understand why life is not going the way that they want. They make their list of desires, make their affirmations but, because they are not clear about what they want, they receive what they want but sometimes it appears skewed. They think the things they ask for come with negative baggage.
Defining the path of your dream is like following the train track. Once you get started, and you ask the right questions, the path will take you where you want to go.